EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE (EI) is said to be the combination of:
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• Self-awareness;
• Self-management;
• Social awareness – empathy; and,
• Relationship management.
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Where are you on the Self-Social Awareness / Self-Relationship Management Continuum? Do you...
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1. Hurt people at will and not think any more about it or say sorry. The basic attitude is, ‘It’s their fault.’ This is ‘unconscious incompetence.’ In other words, “You don’t know what you don’t know.” It’s ignorance either by choice or not.
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2. Hurt people at will, then regret it perhaps a day later, but still not say sorry. You live with the ill feeling, and by virtue of your lack of action you leave ‘them’ with it too. This is the beginnings of ‘conscious incompetence.’ Suddenly you’re becoming more socially aware. Yet, you’re still unable to do anything about it. Read More